Thursday, July 4, 2013

July 2013 Update

Dear All,
Just want to send you a quick update before we take off to Field Forum.  On June 21-22, the KEC northwest region had their quarterly women retreat in Siem Reap Province where 132 ladies attended.  Syna spoke a message based on the book of Judges, chapter 4, challenging the women to Be Light and Be Strong in their communities, even as they are living in midst of male-dominant culture.  Many women who attended the conference came from many different walks of life: many of them are poor families struggled to raise their families as single parents; some have unbelieving, passive, unfaith, alcoholic, and or abusive spouses.   At the end of the conference, many ladies were determined to live a life as Strong Women just like their heroine, Deborah!
Every woman was moved when the story of Lena was shared.  So strong was their feeling for their hurting sisters, Lena (and woman with needs), that the love offering was immediately collected!  They collected $150.00!  This amount may not seem much to the people living in the West, but among the poor people in Cambodia, it is about two- month salary for an average income!   The money was split in halves to help the two ladies.
When we presented the money to Lena, she cried and wished she could be at the conference as well.  During the week we were in Siem Reap, Lena had some complications with the incision of her left eye.  We’d arranged to send her back to Emergency Hospital where the doctor looked at the wound and changed her prescription.
The women spent sometimes in prayers for their many hurting sisters, including Mrs. Moum who is still in jail.  Mrs. Moum continues faithfully to serve God through prison- children ministry outreach.  Twice a month, a volunteer team from local C&MA church in Svey Sisophon continues to minister to children of inmates, in the Sisophon Prison, through child evangelism, literacy and health lessons.  Mrs. Moum is the main contact person for this ministry.  Because of her good behaviors, Mrs. Moum is allowed special privilege to work in the arts & crafts room where she was able to crochet handbags and book covers, and her goods were sent to be sold among the church people such as at the women retreat at Siem Reap.  
Prayer requests:
- Please continue to pray for Lena and her girls, and for Mrs. Moum.
- Pray for the coming C&MA Field Forum, July 9-14, at Kampong Sorm Province.  Our guest speaker is Rev. Sunder Krishnan, Senior Pastor at Rexdale Alliance Church, Toronto, Canada.
- Pray National KEC Youth Conference, August 12-15, at Thmar Koul Center, in Battambang Province.  We are expecting about 600 youth will attend the conference.
- Pray for a united spirit among the National youth committees.  Pray that these youth leaders would see clear vision for the youth ministry.

Blessings,
Soeuth and Syna Lao




Saturday, June 15, 2013

June 2013 Update

Dear Friends,

There have been too many dramatic incidents happening around here during the months of May and June that we hardly know where to begin…  Lately, a number of our youth and church people were involved in various traffic accidents.  Though traffic accidents are unavoidable and are happening everywhere, the issues have become an area of concern and the source of frustration when the “laws of justice” seemed to favor strongly with those who are rich and those with connections…  As for the medical system, it seemed that intravenous fluid (IV) treatment is the # 1 cure for all sicknesses!  And a local saying still rings true to many of the poor families for medical practices that, “No money, no mercy”…  During a time of great challenges, we often wonder about the facts, why do the wicked seemed to always getting away with things, while the righteous are suffering, being mistreated, overlooked, and oppressed? 
Many of you have been following about and praying for the horrible situations that have been happening, on June 1, 2013, to Lena and her daughters, members of the Malay house church, where Lena and two daughters were axed, numerous times, on their heads, by Lena’s own husband!  (Read detailed information below).   By the grace of God, their lives were miraculo
usly spared!  Though the physical wounds are slowly healing, leaving permanent scars on their bodies as reminders of that unforgettable and most dreadful night, the deeper wounds (the emotional and the spiritual wounds), however, are still raw and continue to bring about haunting nightmares…  Of course nothing like this escapes God’s knowing.   And our God always has a habit of bringing something beautiful out of ashes.  At this point we don’t really know what HIS plans are for Lena and her daughters, but something beautiful did come out of this tragic event…
When the news about Lena reached the believers all over Cambodia, Christian people began to shout their prayers to God, to the Great Physician of all, and He heard their cries of prayers!  As the results, even in the midst of injustice and the whole system of corruption, God’s mercies still rule.  He sent us help!  Through the kindness of godly and concerned people (both the Christians and the not-yet Christians), men and women, from Malay, Poipet, and Sisophon areas, voluntarily took turns to spend a few hours, a day, or a night, at the hospital beds, to help care for Lena and the girls’ basic needs.  The Christian people took collections and prayed continuously for her.  And those who stayed with Lena read portions of the Bible out loud to her!   Lena and her daughters’ tragic stories were broadcasted, numerous times, in the Cambodian National radio and television stations!  And because of this broadcast, many people flooded into the hospital settings, just to see the victims and hoped to hear their stories.  And this was where these Khmer people got to see Christ’s love in actions through the responsiveness His children!  Even the hospital staff were amazed that there were so many visitors for just three patients!  Even not-yet Christians who came to visit were amazed and awed at how such loving kindness and concern the Christian people were showing to Lena’s situation!  Even Lena’s own brother, Saat, a not-yet believer, has just admitted, to Soeuth, that he will consider his decision of faith…
Our family enjoyed having Justin home for the summer break, (June 6- August 15).  With Lena’s situations along with many other unavoidable interruptions, we are a bit delayed with home school.  But we hope to have Jonathan finished school by June 20th, so he could enjoy a summer break with his big brother…  Syna is grateful for a wonderful opportunity to attend a Leadership Matter Course (LMC) in Phnom Penh, April 21-May 4.  While Syna was away, Soeuth took over the household affairs including home school and the ministries in Poipet.  It was an interesting two -week experience for the Lao family!  
On May 16-25, we’d enjoy a visiting team led by our dear friend, Jim Newman, from Washington Alliance Church (WAC), Western PA.  The team brought us some wonderful goodies including 3 quizzing machines for the KEC youth ministry and Jonathan’s home school books for the coming year!  The Living Water is blessed to have a new basketball court and ceiling fans for all the rooms downstairs!  Thank you WAC team!
June 8-9, the Division 1 Living Water Soccer team, had a finals match where our team came in second place.  We are proud of our players.  Justin was excited to be part of the team during his final competition, using his goalie skills.
As you remember to continue praying for Lena, please pray also for the events below…
-June 18, Poipet’s children Sunday school teachers’ retreat in Siem Reap
-June 21-22, Regional Women seminar, Siem Reap Province.
-June 29, Poipet monthly youth gathering meet at Living Water Church.
-July 9-15, C&MA missionary annual Field Forum meeting at Sihanoukville Province.
-July 20, Quarterly Regional youth gathering for the northwest region at Svey Sisophon.
-August 12-14, National KEC Youth Conference at Thmar Koul Center, about 600 youth will attend 
Thank you so much for your continual partnership through your faithful prayers and financial support to the GCF.  Your giving to the GCF enables us to serve God, among the poor and oppressed, shining the light of Jesus to the lost, in this dark part of the world.  Please share with us what God is doing in your lives.  We would love to be your prayer supporters as well.

Because He Lives,
Soeuth and Syna Lao
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Dear Friends,

June 2
Please pray for Lena and her two daughters (13 and 17) from Malay village!  At 1 am in June 1, Lena and her girls were sound asleep when her husband attempted to murder her with numerous devices.  First he electric socked on her chest where she got severe burn at the sites, next he choked and tried to cut off her tongue with scissors but without success!  Then he took an ax and chopped her on the head numerous times!  When the girls finally awoke from the next room and when they attempted to help their mom, he then took turns on them.  The girls got numerous cut on their heads as well. Finally he took off!  The neighbors heard the commotion and called the police.  That was when they discovered that the husband, being the only ambulance driver from that district, he took off with the ambulance!  So when the police were site, they could not do anything nor could they get the patients to the local referral hospital there.  After many attempted phone calls, we were able get another ambulance from Poipet to get them to the provincial hospital in Mokoul Borey, about 6 hours after the incident took place.  All three victims are in critical conditions at a provincial hospital right now.  But because they had no close relatives and no financial status, we were not even allowed a hospital bed!  When we saw them yesterday on June 2nd, all three were lying on filthy mats on tile floor!  We are trying our best to work with the local medial system, whose medical practices are SO BACKWARD! Very frustrating!  We spent about 6 hours at the hospital yesterday, working hard not to lose our tempers as we'd tried to get someone to check on the patients...  Thanks to the kindness of neighbors and friends, church people are taking turns to stay with the patients and help with their needs, until we are able to contact distant family members...  Please pray.

June 3
After numerous attempts and many phone calls, we finally got Lena and her two daughters out of the provincial hospital, today at around 3 pm, and the patients transferred to and were being seen by doctors at the NGO trauma hospital called Emergency Hospital in Battambang Province.  (The Monkoul Borey Provincial Hospital made us paid $300.00 even there was hardly any nursing care done on the patients!)  BUT the minutes after we'd loaded the patients into our pick-up truck (Lena and her younger daughter inside the truck), heavy rains began to pour down nonstop!  Soeuth had to drive very slowly as one patient (an older daughter) and a relative were sitting, outside, under the cover of a heavy plastic tarp/ sheet, on back of the truck!  With heavy rains, the trip to the Emergency Hospital took more than 2 hours.  But the patients were all doing okay!  The staff at the Emergency were kinder and helpful, compare to those at the provincial hospital staff!  All three patients were immediately rushed into the treatment rooms!  Because it is a full house with all kinds of trauma patients at the Emergency Hospital, they could only have one bed available for Lena.  Lena had lost a lot of blood and she has bleeding from her nose and her left eye. The other two patients, however, the daughters, will be treated as our patients.  We rented a room at the nearby guest house for the sisters and their uncle (Lena's younger brother)... What I forgot to tell you is that Lena also has another daughter named Paula.  She is 4 years old, and this little girl was in the same room when it all happened!  She saw everything that her father had done to her mother and two older sisters!  Though she was not physically harmed, we are very concerned about her emotional being... Thanks for pray for Lena's family.  We'll keep you posted if anything changes.

June 8
After we left Lena and her girls under the care of the medical staffs at the Emergency Hospital on June 4, we went to BKK to pick up Justin who has just returned home (June 6) for the summer break... This afternoon, Saturday June 8, we visited Lena at the hospital again.  Lena was alert and looked much stronger today!  They shaved off her head.  She had 4 large deep wounds where her husband had axed her, but the wounds are now covered nicely with stitches. The guy had pounded on her left eye with the head of an ax where it is now totally damaged.  The doctors had to remove her left eye ball because it was showing sign of infection, and they said that if delayed, it may cause more damage to the remaining eye.  The left eye still has some swelling and some oozing blood drainage from the incision sites. The doctors suggested that when the husband attempted to choke Lena multiple times, he may had caused some damages to her voice box.   And the cut on her tongue is healing beautifully as well.  Though Lena was able to tell us, in great details about everything that had happened to her on that horrible night, 
she talked with much effort and with a very hoarse voice!  She still has a swelling on her throat.  The doctors told her that Lena may need to undergo another surgery, hopefully, to repair her voice box.  Lena still has some oozing sores on her chest, those burn marks that she got when the husband tried to kill her through electric shocked, twice!  Despite of what she had gone through, the first words that came out of her lips when she greeted us was that, "I am going to live".  We told Lena that many Christian families have been praying for her.  And she was very grateful and said, "Thank You” About her girls:  the oldest one, named Daa Naet, had seven stitches on her left cheek, and the swelling is going down tremendously!  She is not considered as a patient at Emergency, but she is there as a family member caring for Lena.  Because of his work in Phnom Penh, Lena's brother had to go back home this morning.  We suggested that he takes 4 year-old Paula to live with his family for a while; since Paula, being a curious child, was always wondering around the hospital, always causing more panics and frights to Lena whenever Paula had disappeared to some places.  The middle girl, Srey Nit, (who also had two nasty cuts on her head, where the wounds are now covering nicely with clean stitches), is being sent to live with another relative, in Phnom Penh, for a while, until Lena is strong enough to care for herself again. As for legal perspectives and justice, we have very little hope that any justice will be done for Lena and her children.  The guy is still missing.  We pray that God will deliver His justice on their behalf.  Thank you for praying for Lena and the family...








Monday, March 4, 2013

March Report


 Dear Friends and Family,

Greetings from the land of the tropics! In the month of January, we enjoyed a few “winter” days when the refreshing cool temperature dropped to the mid 70’s.
But now, near the peak of the HOT season, the average daily temperature is in the high 90’s! First of all, we want to THANK YOU for your patience, faithful prayers, and support for our family and the ministries in Poipet, even when our newsletters to you have not been as frequent as we would like them to be. Many events took place since our last newsletter sent and we want to keep you up to date. In late December to mid January, despite of the business with all the Christmas programs from among the KEC churches, we managed to have a wonderful and fun time spent with our older son, Justin. During his last week of winter break, we spent a restful week of family vacation in Bangkok, where we also get to meet some wonderful new friends who were staying at the Alliance Guest House. During the few weeks of Jan. 4 to Feb. 8, the church families in Poipet encountered a number of scary incidents where a total of 8 school age girls, those that we know of, were being attacked. Some of them were sexually hurt by some evil men, in broad day light, as these girls were bicycling separately to and from school! The police and other local authorities had been immediately notified. Unfortunately, even to this day, there is not even a single report that any of these guys were caught! The girls at church are being cautious of when and where they are traveling. Please continue to lift this situation in your prayers. During the festive weekends of Chinese New Year, Feb. 9-10, there was a report that at least 40 people were killed by traffic accidents and hundreds injured as people went overboard with their wild drinking and reckless driving. Unfortunately, some of the young people from the Poipet church suffered some minor injuries as well. On Feb. 5-8, Soeuth took 6 guys from Poipet to join the KEC men retreat at Rattanakiri Province, about 18 hours drive to the Northeastern part of Cambodia, where 476 men registered! Then, our family went to PHN, on Feb.14-21, to join 1. The dedication of the KEC National Office (Feb. 15) 2. The 90th Anniversary celebration since the Good News of Jesus Christ entered Cambodia the C&MA (Feb. 15-16) and 3. The KEC Conference (Feb. 18-20). During the 90th Anniversary, there were many representatives from different nations and many tribal and people groups from around Cambodia; they all came to join the festive celebrations! There were given opportunities for different people groups to sing and/ or perform their special ethnic songs in tribute to the special occasion. There was also a moment of silent as we took time to reflect and honor those faithful servants of the Lord who had sacrificed their lives for the cause of bringing the Good News into Cambodia. We’d all experienced a taste of
heaven during those two days!
At the KEC Mohasanibaat (Conference), the KEC representatives from all three regions gave reports that, in spites of their ups and downs, God is at work among the 190 KEC Churches! And the KEC is hoping to have 200 churches by the end of 2013! Some of main goals for the upcoming year are to strengthen the ministries of youth, discipleship, and leadership training.We were especially pleased when the conference took time to recognize and honor those who are faithfully investing 
times and efforts teaching and disciple others through various Christian education literatures and TEE books. Among the 22 students who graduated this year, 16 of them were from the P-Noung tribe of Mondulkiri Province! We praised these students as they persevered all the way to the end, devoting themselves to study and observance of the laws of the Lord (Ezra 7:10) though the TEE program, in the Khmer language! As soon as the conference ended, we rushed back to Poipet to resume a few more days of home school. Slowly but surely, our Jonathan, fifth grader- he’ll be 11 on April 9th, is making progress with home school. At the rate where things have been and are going, however, we may end up having a very brief summer break this year, before we’ll head on toward the next school year... Please pray for Jonathan for motivation to study, extra patience, and more grace on the teacher...
Then, on Monday, Feb. 25, (another National holiday for the Khmer students), the
northwest youth came together for their quarterly gathering at Svey Sisophon village. Soeuth gave a message based on Ephesians 4:25-5:2. The youth were then divided into 5 groups. Each group received a large rice bag, a marker, and instructions. As the groups raced outside to gather and collect all the garbage surrounding the church building, the young people were identifying all the “garbage” /sins in their lives that were offending their Savior Lord. At the end of the message, in spite of the extreme heat (it was at least 105 degrees outside), all the young people went into a dry rice field to burn away all 
their collected junk, and to confess their many “garbage” of life to the Lord! It was a beautiful scene watching sinners repent! Please continue to lift the Cambodian youth ministry in your prayers. Pray for wisdom, insight, and clear directions as we oversee the National Youth ministry.
Many of you have been very supportive, financially, toward the fund raising project for our vehicle! Although the money you gave was more than enough, we had been delayed purchasing a truck of our own because we have been ‘car- sitting” and alternatively driving two other trucks. These trucks belong to two other units of international worker who are on home assignment this year. Back in November, however, we had placed an order for a specific truck of our choice, and finally, last month it arrived! Because you believe in the same cause and gave generously toward this project, we now have a reliable vehicle which enables us to effectively serve at distant places and be able to travel to remote villages bringing the Good News of Jesus Christ to the unreached areas. Thank you for your sacrificial gifts and support toward the vehicle fund and toward the Poipet
ministries! We’ve been enjoying the company of and are grateful to have Stephanie, a godly young lady, a “PK” from upstate New York, who has been staying with us for the past few months. Following college graduation, and at her own expenses, she wished to experience a bit of the “mission life” before heading to further education. So far, she has been following us around to villages, helping out with teaching English at the Living Water Church, home schooling Jonathan, and studying Khmer language. During the intense weeks of January and February, we’d encountered some personal and stressful issues as well. Soeuth had a bad case of root canal, and he resolved it by making 5 additional unplanned round trips to the dental office in Phnom Penh, an 8 -hour drive each way! While Soeuth was busy traveling on road trips visiting dentists and
attending meetings, Syna was busy killing snakes and other unwanted pests around the house in Poipet while trying to home school and dealing with endless interruptions and “drop-by” visitors from the church families, teaching TEE classes, and maintaining the household affair. All of that sometimes with or without the help of a reliable house guard or a house helper! But by the Grace of God, we’ve made to March! Please pray for safe traveling and protection during the upcoming events: March 5-8, Mission prayer retreat, Phnom Penh
March 15- Leadership meeting, Poipet
March 16, Syna with NW region women seminar at Ondong Thmar Meas, Poipet March 16, Soeuth with National Youth Committees, Phnom Penh

March 30, Men Club, Poipet
March 30-
April 7, we’ll spend Justin’s spring break in Thailand
April 9-10, Evangelism Explosion Seminar, Poipet
April 14-15, Soeuth with RCC Youth Seminar, Rattanakiri Province
April 13-15, Khmer New Year
April 20, Discipleship Making Seminar, Poipet
April 21-May 4, Syna attending Leadership Matter Course, Phnom Penh

Please share with us what God is doing in your life! We are grateful for your commitment to support and pray and for the partnership with the Poipet ministries. Your faithful giving to the GCF enables us to serve among the poor Khmer families who are living along the border of Cambodia-Thailand, bringing the Good News of Hope and Salvation through Jesus Christ to the lost souls.


Living the call,
Soeuth & Syna Lao 

Saturday, December 29, 2012

My Story



Soeuth Lao is the 3rd child in a family of 7children and was raised in a Buddhist home in the Battambang Province in the northwest region of Cambodia.  At the age of 12, when the country fell into the hands of the communist regime, he was separated from his family for over 3 years.  During the separation, Soeuth lived in a concentration camp among hundreds of other children and struggled a great deal just to survive.  There were constant moments of hunger from the lack of food, of fear of being killed by the Khmer Rogue soldiers, of always trying to do things that would please the leaders, and also constant moments of loneliness, homesickness and longing for close family members.  

            Toward the end of the KR regime in January 1979, another war took over Cambodia.  This time, it was the communists from South Vietnam.  The entire Cambodian government was fully controlled by the foreigners.  During this war outbreak, by the grace of God, Soeuth was miraculously reunited with his loved ones, the family whom he had not seen for over 3.5 years. At the reunion, he learned that one of his bothers was killed and that his mother was pregnant and was about to give birth to his youngest brother.  Another brother was also born during his time of separation.  At the moment of meeting his family again, Soeuth vowed he would never leave his family ever again. 

             Yet, poverty changed this course of life.  In the summer of 1982, because of poverty and the fear of being drafted into the communist military, Soeuth was once again forced to abandon his beloved home and family.  Without telling anyone about his plans, Soeuth left Battambang province headed toward the northwest area to the Cambodian-Thailand border.  With the help of some hired guides and with many difficulties, he made it safely to a refugee camp in Thailand.  It was in the refugee camps where he first heard about Christianity, but he was not interested at all. In fact, Soeuth's theory was that if you are a Khmer, your religion is Buddhism.  Soeuth became furious at any Khmer person who converted to Christianity.  Over the course of time, his heart softened towards those who chose Christianity. 

            In September of 1983, Soeuth was sponsored by a family to come to New York City.  His first settlement was in the Bronx, NY!  Compared to where he had been and not knowing the reality of what the Bronx was like, he thought that the Bronx was heaven!  Reality quickly taught him that this was not heaven at all.  Yet, Soeuth continued to live there with his distant relatives. Despite a good life, having the opportunity to go to school, enjoying a life of party and fun, Soeuth was still quite restless with life.  He felt that something was missing deep in his heart.  One day Soeuth met a friend who used to go to church while living in the refugee camps. Through the help of his friends, Soeuth was introduced to church.  His first time attending church was not what he hoped it to be. But out of respect for his friends, and because of the friendly atmosphere of the church family, Soeuth slowly began to show great interest in going to church.   But mostly, he was going there for fellowship.  
at Living Water Church
               Until one day, Soeuth's uncle who he has living with, confronted him with making a decision.  If he was to continue living at home, he must quit going to church. Otherwise, he must leave the house.  That was a turning point for Soeuth.  He was no longer playing with God.  He decided to be serious with God by moving out of his uncle's home and moving in to live with his pastor.  Through living with his pastor, Soeuth grew a lot spiritually.  Upon graduation from high school, his pastor strongly urged him to give Nyack College a try. And he did.  It was in Nyack College during one of the mission chapel services that Soeuth felt his call into full-time service.  There, he recommitted his life to God and dedicated his life to full-time ministry. 

            Upon graduation from Nyack College, Soeuth was able to go for a 3-month mission service along the borders of Thailand into refugee camps where he was once a resident. God confirmed in his heart once more that the mission field was where he belonged.  Returning home to New York City, Soeuth married Syna and together, they served in a home service at a Cambodian church in the Bronx, a church where Soeuth had attended as a youth.  He served there for 4 years as pastor while attending part time at the Seminary.  Finally in August of 1995, Soeuth and Syna were sent out to Cambodia as missionary associates with the C&MA.

            After two years of overseas service, the Laos returned to their homeland of Cambodia to serve as career missionaries with the C&MA where they have been serving until this present day. While serving in Cambodia, God blessed them with two wonderful sons, Justin and Jonathan.  Because of what they had gone through as children living under harsh conditions at the hands of communist regimes, and because God had miraculously spared their lives for His own purpose, the Laos are now happily serving Jesus among the Khmer people along the borders of their homeland working amongst the poorest of the poor of Cambodia, sharing the Good News of Jesus, bringing the Hope and Salvation in Jesus to the lost, and shining the Light of Jesus to this darkest part of the world.